I absolutly cannot sing but i really want to learn because music is my life and i want to be able to sing along with my favourite songs and not make an idiot out of myself.
-How much would voice lessons cost?
-How long would i have to take them for in order to be able to sing okay-not great-just okay?
-How often are lessons and how much time does it take up?
I disagree that not everyone can sing, although I agree that not everyone will be truly great at it. I had a opera singer/music professor in college who actually wrote a book about why everyone can sing. I also studied this subject in one of my music classes. In cultures where everyone is expected to sing (think tribal chanting cultures in Africa, etc) everyone can sing. Our brains are actually wired for it! The problem with our culture is that not everyone is actually brought up with music, so they never learn. The only reason that you would truly be unable to sing is if you have a physical condition which prevents you from ascertaining pitch, such as a problem with your ear or in your brain.
This does not mean you have a voice that people will want to listen to but it does mean you can take voice lessons and learn to sing on pitch, etc. Lessons cost from $25-$75 depending. You may want to try to find a grad student or someone who won’t charge to much when you are just starting out. Try contacting your local university. The length of time it takes you to learn depends on how much you are willing to practice and really listen to your teacher and do everything he/she tells you, even if you are shy or uncomfortable. Lessons are usually once a week for 30 minutes.